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The Cosmic Onion's avatar

This piece names something many families feel but can’t quite articulate: death has been turned into a managed procedure instead of a human transition.

The system is excellent at intervention, billing, and protocol. It is far less equipped for meaning, presence, or honoring what a person actually wants at the end of life. That’s how people end up surrounded by machines instead of loved ones, receiving treatments they never chose.

The quiet counter-current is hospice and palliative care. When used well, they return the focus to comfort, clarity, family, and dignity—often at home, where the person belongs.

The real takeaway for me is simple: decide your values before the crisis. Write them down. Share them with your family. Make sure your care reflects your life.

A human life deserves a human ending.

— Lone Wolf

Trader Grudinin's avatar

This is a very good article about an enduring and challenging topic

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